The moon came a little closer. ¬†I think the man who lives there was mildly curious about what had been keeping me. ¬†My visits to spy on him have been more rare these days.
It is awing, is it not? ¬†This relationship we form with the light God formed in the nighttime sky? ¬†We gaze at him in ways we are not allowed to with his older brother, the sun. ¬†He seems to enjoy the attention and changes his look to spur us on in our beholding. Sometimes he glows with the color he borrowed from the sun. ¬†Sometimes he is blue, silver, or eerily white. ¬†When he is full of himself, he shows his smiling face and we smile back. ¬†He’s infectious that way.
For me, his appeal comes with the memories we have shared. ¬†You may feel the same. ¬†It’s like watching a movie that seems to have stolen bits of your life and played them out for all of the world to see. ¬†You cry, not because of the character’s woes, but because their misery has pricked you with memory’s sharp thorn.
*I see my love, lit with lunar glow, bowing his head towards mine. ¬†The fields are almost clear as day and my gown glows as if heavenly. ¬†What romance can not succumb to such a setting? ¬†What heart can help but beat a little faster?
*The ocean beats upon the shore. ¬†Waves try to reflect the moon. ¬†Water, ever-changing, distorts its image but the abstract is just as lovely. ¬†Stars twinkle and wink, hoping to distract my attention.
*Lying spread out flat on St. Augustine mattress. ¬†The blackness above letting bits and pieces of heaven’s glory spark above me. ¬†Lightening bugs float starlike above the earth, on the same plane as me. ¬†My friend, The Man on the Moon, grins as my mother calls me to come inside.
He has been companion to midnight walks, camping trips, solitary swims, and cries in the abyss. His surface reflects his surroundings and his shape nightly transforms. ¬†He is a lot like me, only he is silent, rock-hard, and strong. ¬†He remains true to us all whether we pay him any attention, or not.
I am happy he came a little closer the other night. ¬†I’ll try to be more faithful in my nocturnal visits and more grateful for the moonlit memories.
Feet lifting slightly off the floor as I tip my weight.
Baby nestled snugly against my breast.
The weight in my arms shifts only slightly as I rock.
Back and Forth.
I rock this child, this life so dear. ¬†A ritual as important to me as to him. ¬†I draw comfort from the warmth of his tiny body. ¬†The smell of baby shampoo and milk are scents of ¬†hope; a hope that time would halt its pilgrimage forward, just for now.
I sing low and soft, letting the vibration of my chest and voice remind him of when he was in Momma’s womb, sounds muffled through tissue and water. ¬†The swishing of the rocker on the wooden floor like the pumping of Momma’s heart in his ears.
I recently found out that someone close to our family has been diagnosed with lung cancer. ¬†This information, on top of my own mother’s battle with leukemia, lymphoma, and lung cancer over this past year, has left me thinking a lot about the disease. ¬†I know many of you have dealt with some form of this rotting, wasting, life-eating illness either yourself, or with a loved one. ¬†I realize the word itself provokes nightmarish fears for us and those we care about. ¬†My heart aches with each mention of it.
The year I turned 45, I was given the diagnosis of chronic lymphocytic leukemia which had already enlarged most of my lymph glands. ¬†I dreaded the diagnosis I would hear after one year of tests and a previous diagnosis of fibromyalgia. ¬†A dark cloud hung over me as I celebrated my grandson’s birthday, my youngest daughter’s glorious fall wedding on top of a mountain in Arkansas, my 45th birthday, itself. ¬†Thanksgiving was just around the corner. ¬†So much life to celebrate. ¬†I tried, but I was exhausted.
In between my birthday and Thanksgiving, I received a call from the surgeon who had done my biopsy. ¬†It was late in the afternoon. ¬†My friend, Marian had come to help me at my shop. ¬†Unpaid, she worked and held me up. ¬†When the call came and they insisted I come to their office that very day to talk to the doctor, I told Marian, “This can’t be good.” ¬†She said, “I’m coming with you.” ¬†And, she did. ¬†We closed up shop and drove about an hour to get to his office.
Once there, the doctor very gently told me the lymph gland was malignant,¬†but if you have to have cancer, this is the best kind to have. ¬†“We caught it early”, he said. ¬†He referred me to an oncologist who in turn recommended bone marrow biopsies. ¬†This lead to a specific diagnosis of CLL and gave him a course of treatment to recommend. ¬†Dr. Kirby, kindness himself, said, “You can get another opinion, but this is what I would suggest to a member of my own family.” ¬†I told him that I believed that God was in charge and that this whole process had led me to him. ¬†I talked it over with my family, did my research on the proposed drugs, and decided to go with the chemotherapy regimen.
Ignorance is bliss—isn’t that what they say? ¬†I had done my research. ¬†Still, I wasn’t prepared for what was on my bumpy road. ¬†I sat in a recliner one week of the month for six months, tubes and needles feeding me poison and antibodies, playing card games with my oldest, pregnant daughter. ¬†She drove all the way from Arkansas and spent those weeks away from her beloved husband to keep me distracted and upbeat. ¬†My other children had jobs that prevented them from being there for every treatment, but they did many thoughtful things to give me comfort and were there for me when they could be. ¬†My grandchildren were like a golden trophy held out for me to obtain and live for. ¬†Once my course was set, I trusted God.
The poison went in and did its work. ¬†It killed off the cancer cells, but was no respecter of cells. ¬†It murdered the good ones as well. ¬†I received shots to boost my white count. ¬†They would rise weakly, only to fall flat on their faces. ¬†They were pooped. ¬†I had asked too much of them. ¬†It was during this time that death started to look like my very near future. ¬†Maybe I should have just rested knowing that heaven was on the other side, but I am a weak sinner. ¬†I love life. ¬†I love my family. ¬†There was so much that I felt I hadn’t done.
I read a book and found out about a holistic clinic in Dallas. ¬†They didn’t accept insurance because insurance companies won’t pay for holistic therapies. ¬†I felt like hope was wrapped up in their treatment plan. ¬†I was to detox and eat only certain foods, plus take supplements. ¬†I was a good patient and followed their plan to the letter. ¬†By the time I went back for my blood work at Texas Oncology, my blood count was finally out of the danger zone. ¬†Finally, I could do things, normal things, like go the movies, stay in my pew if someone had a coughing fit in church, floss my teeth, go shopping, shave my legs without worrying about cutting myself. ¬†It has never dipped back down. ¬†I am still in remission.
I wish I could say that I learned my lesson, that I take super-duper good care of myself, eat the perfect diet, do yoga and meditation, and pray…well, I¬†do¬†pray and I do half-heartedly try to be good. ¬†But, that “loving life” thing keeps getting me.
Well, like I stated from the beginning, this has all been on my mind—a lot. ¬†Thinking one thing usually leads to another and I’ve come to this conclusion, right or wrong. ¬†I think that cancer is like sin. ¬†There I’ve said it! ¬†Just mull this over: ¬†all of us, according to scientists, have cancerous cells dormant in our bodies. ¬†It plays nice with all the other cells, pretending it is harmless. ¬†Then, one day, you let the stress of business, children, marriage, or some other illness get you down and the evil cells say “Whoo-hoo!!! ¬†It’s time to take over, boys!”
Our souls, pure from birth, develop cracks like our skin develops wrinkles. ¬†Sure they are just tiny little cracks at first. ¬†You can’t even see them. ¬†Oh, but Satan is so tricky! ¬†A crack is all he needs. ¬†Just like cancer, or the opposing poison in my veins, he wants to take over. ¬†He sees that crack and waits, patiently waits until you open it just wide enough for him to get his wedge in. ¬†He works at it until he himself is in and BOOM, before you know it, the cancerous sin is trying to take over. ¬†Keeping sin at bay is a lot harder than fighting off cancer. ¬†A lost battle with either one is serious, but which would you rather lose—death to the body, or death to the soul?
How do you fight it? ¬†Same as cancer, friend. ¬†You get down on your knees and ask your God for help. ¬†You let Jesus’ blood wash you clean. ¬†And once He gets it out, you fill that space back up with Good. ¬†Let God’s Spirit direct your path. ¬†Stay on it. Stay in the Word. ¬†And if you wander off, (like I, to my shame, do) you fall back on your knees. ¬†God loves you. ¬†He wants you at home, just like my family did. ¬†He will be faithful to lift you up if you come to Him and worship Him.
I realize that all who want a cancer cure will not find it. ¬†I know many battles will be lost, because let’s face it, we all have to go some way, don’t we? I know this sounds extremely harsh to the ear. ¬†I am sorry. We may wish we could pick our fate, but all is not in our hands. ¬†The good news is, God has laid out a plan. ¬†He is the Kind Doctor. ¬†He knows what will heal our souls. ¬†Get out a bible, if you haven’t already done so, and see what treatment plan He has prescribed. ¬†Then, follow His steps. ¬†He will lead you to eternal life, where there is no sickness or dying. ¬†Isn’t that the healing we all really need?
“And God will wipe away every tear from their eyes; there shall be no more death, nor sorrow, nor crying. ¬†There shall be no more pain, for the former things have passed away.”¬†Revelations 21: 4 (NKJV)
Romans 6:3-5 says, “Or do you not know that as many of us as were baptized into Christ Jesus were baptized into His death? ¬†Therefore we were buried with Him through baptism into death, that just as Christ was raised from the dead by the glory of the Father, even so we also should walk in newness of life.”(NKJV)
NEWNESS OF LIFE…personally, I like the sound of that!